Watching The Wedding Planner

So a theme I've realized is in romantic comedies: WEALTH. All the greats I've been watching begin with the premise of having mountains of money. I'd love to have a romantic comedy based in something that isn't idyllic to the point of building new portions of house, having weddings in vineyards, living in a beach house, etc. Something based in the normal everyday life. A romantic comedy that's real but not completely devoid of humor and lovely things.

And not one about a girl with cancer or a guy who's terminally ill. Maybe I'd use Bean's story: she falls in love with this guy who is so great, they hang out all the time, give everything to each other, and then he decides to go on a trip to Europe on his bike, leaves her in the states and she's busy doing nothing. She's afraid of being boring when he comes back.

Question: If I wanted to travel to france, or go to a cooking school somewhere, would there even be a way??? I thought about crowd-funding. I don't know why I can't find a job that sticks. I don't know why I don't care enough about fashion to do that for a part time job. Why can't I get what I want in life while working hard? Am I?? Maybe I'm getting exactly what I want. Maybe this is what I wanted and I'm heading towards things just as slowly as I really truly desire.

But, is there a way to travel? Without dying? I still have gas, strange eating habits, strange sleeping habits, a desire for sameness and schedule and not having things that surprise me. I'm someone who doesn't step outside of my comfort zone very often and likes to stayyyyy. :)